No assumption!

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Do not make any assumption on your child. I did this today! 😦 this post is to remind me of that.

I assumed just because I started feeding him solids, he’s full longer and did not breastfeed him as often. He screamed the house down and I did not get it that he was actually hungry 😦

I also assumed again that because he took such a long nap today that he won’t be sleepy so soon at night. Wrong again! 😦

What I learnt is that adults tend to assume the behaviour of a child based on our rhythm, our life – and this is very wrong. It made us stop listening to the child. To improve on this I must be more present, listen to my child better nd be more empathetic. May Allah help me in making this improvement ameen.

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  1. Salam ukhuwah… terjumpa link blog sis kt page hypnobirthing malaysia… ur birth story really inspired… saya dah nk masuk anak ke3 ni, 37weeks tp masih baru belajar utk melahirkan secara alami dan fitrah… 1st one cesarean, 2nd one VBAC and 3rd one ni perhaps homebirth?hehe 🙂 cuma sy xberpeluang utk attend kelas… doakan saya…

    • Salam Nur Faizah,
      Terima kasih atas comment 🙂 Saya doakan agar Faizah akan diberi kelahiran alami yang indah ameen. Yakin dengan kemampuan tubuh kita yang diciptakan Allah sempurna untuk melahirkan. Banyakkan doa dan bayangkan di dalam fikiran kelahiran bagaimana yang Faizah inginkan. Berkomunikasi dengan baby dan nyatakan hasrat kelahiran Faizah kepadanya. Selamat melahirkan Faizah 🙂

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